Film review: Nyad (2023)
Nyad had a limited release in theatres at the end of October before airing on Netflix on November 3rd. I didn’t get to see it on the big screen, but it’s the type of movie that doesn’t need one to be enjoyed (I’ve watched it twice on my TV). No matter the screen size, it’s an inspiring biopic—especially for the older female audience. Nyad should appeal to most adult women but particularly to women over 60, something this film analyst rarely gets to say. Few movies are made about older women, star women over 40 or portray older women as strong and capable. Nyad does all that and...
Read MoreRemembrance
I stand at the cenotaph; the azure blue sky being held up by dark bare branches. The crackling falling leaves floating past at first a sprinkles, and then advances, into a torrent of golden maples, falling upon the ground so green. Replaced slowly by the red poppies seen, on the coats that grow by the minute, from a group to a crowd and then to a throng of dogs, babies, adults old and young, Paying respect to our fallen soldiers, veterans and serving armed forces. And through the service I silently weep, not in regret but a gladness so deep That my family survived, into the two wars...
Read MoreA voice of reason.
Although the original chaos and frenzied reaction in 2020 at the onset of Covid has subsided there is still a lot of confusion about it. Shots, booster shots Covid or flu shots, age differentials, how long after the last one and on and on. I recently read the excellent article below that put this whole scenario in simple, easy to read and understandable perspective in the Victoria Times Colonist by Charla Huber. I thoroughly recommend that you read it and pass it on to others. Trish Summerhayes. Publisher. Island Woman...
Read MoreCOULD SHOULD WOULD
When I was one, I knew that I could, So, I struggled, and struggled, and miraculously stood, At last, I could walk, which was to all to the good, Then I started to talk. When I was ten by manipulation, I found a way. To control my parents come what may, This unfortunately their nerves did fray, At what I would be when a teen. When I was fifteen, I was told If I worked that I might, Enjoy the rewards academical, a future bright, And for the rest of my life delight, In an interesting career. When I was twenty, I knew that I should, Change my future path for I understood, My childhood had been...
Read MoreDo I need life insurance?
Life insurance can help your loved ones deal with the financial impact of your death. The death benefit paid from a life insurance policy is a tax-free, lump-sum amount that can replace your income so your family can maintain their standard of living or provide for your children or dependents. It can also be designated to pay off expenses such as funeral costs. You may have forgotten about a life insurance policy that was paid off long ago. Sometimes a policy was purchased from a company that no longer exists. Some employer life insurance policy Agreements have payouts available even after a...
Read MoreIndiana Jones and the Dial of Destiny
Movie theatres didn’t spoil the female audience in September. I’ve lost track of all the new horror and action movies currently on offer (neither genre typically has much to offer female viewers). Our best options appear to be The Miracle Club and My Big Fat Greek Wedding 3. The former, starring the usually highly entertaining Maggie Smith, is disappointingly mediocre. The latter, written and directed by Nia Vardalos, a Canadian, isn’t nearly as much fun as 2002’s My Big Fat Greek Wedding. For these reasons, I’ve chosen to discuss a summer release: Indiana Jones and the Dial of...
Read MoreHay There!
Make Hay While The Sun Shines’ – John Heywood, English Playwright 1546 As I briefly scanned the horizon last month, while driving through Cedar or into fair Ladysmith, I noted that the field marshmallows were popping up everywhere. And who would have thought that a playwright, and sometime musician/composer would have coined the prime rule when it comes to mak’in hay? Not I. Since we ‘bought the farm’ in 2004 this time of the season has always stressed me out to the max. Harvesting the early fruits and veggies is great for the spirit, but that hay! Depending on folks is one...
Read MoreTravel in Thailand
Siam changed its name to Thailand in 1939 because the word “Thai” means “Free” This colorful, ancient land was once upon a time called “Siam”. The place where, according to some reports, my favorite cats, the Siamese, originated. Do we remember Yule Brynner dancing his way around the world, as the king in “The King and I”, until he could no longer dance and that dreaded disease, cancer, stopped him in his tracks? And who does not remember “ The Bridge over the River Quay”? We walked over this famous bridge, whistling that familiar tune as we went. We were...
Read MoreFilm review: Barbie
The movie of the summer—or the year, it may turn out—is a great treat for the female audience. You may have stopped playing with Barbies when you were five. You may detest the unrealistic beauty ideal the iconic doll has promoted for decades with her anatomically impossible body. If so, you aren’t alone, and American writer-director Greta Gerwig has created a brilliant comedy you may just find wonderfully enjoyable. The first time I watched Barbie, on July 20, the theatre was full of groups of women and mother/daughter duos that laughed throughout the movie. The second time I saw it, on...
Read MoreMy Garden Decor
Even when your thumb is not particularly green, you can have an intriguing garden– certainly one with more personal, perhaps nostalgic, history behind it than the heirloom rose in the corner. Not to knock the roses though, because my robust and invasive Rugosa, covered with scented blooms, carries with it a story of the Alaska Highway. But back to those garden specimens that have sprouted without roots and need no pruning or fertilizing. Probably the first of these is an ancient cast iron Franklin fireplace. While directing its placement in a corner by the hedge of my present yard, my husky...
Read MoreBones of Crows
For the very first time, I find myself writing about a movie with a protagonist that shares my old French name:Aline {my mum preferred an unusual spelling). Canadian filmmaker Marie Clements’ newest film, a drama titled Bones of Crows, tells the story of a residential school survivor named Aline Spears—and it’s not your typical theatre fare. Moreover, parts of it were shot on Vancouver Island, including in Esquimalt, Victoria and Saanich. When I saw Bones of Crows in Victoria at the beginning of June, many audience members remained in their seats after the end credits finished rolling...
Read MoreA Summer Feast.
Turkey steaks, Mexican quesadilla, guacamole, salsa, and cheesecake with a blueberry topping. BBQ’d turkey steaks. 1 large turkey breast steak per person, pounded to ensure even thickness all the way through Zest and juice of 2 limes 1 clove garlic, crushed 1½ tsp good quality chili powder (or use a combination of 6 parts ground cumin and cayenne pepper powder) 3 tablespoons good olive oil 1 tsp salt Combine all the above ingredients together well and pour over the turkey steaks. Marinate the steaks for at least 2 hours but no longer than 4 hours. Drain...
Read MoreWhat is Urinary Incontinence and What Can you do About it?
Urinary incontinence — the loss of bladder control — is a common and often embarrassing problem. The severity ranges from occasionally leaking urine when you cough, sneeze, run or jump (entitled stress incontinence) to having an urge to urinate that is so sudden and strong you don’t get to the toilet in time (urge incontinence). Although it occurs more often as people age and in women who have given birth, urinary incontinence isn’t an inevitable consequence of aging or of having had kids. Ir urinary incontinence affects your daily activities, seeing a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist can...
Read MoreFilm review: Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret
A story about an 11-year-old girl praying to God to make her breasts grow and her period come isn’t an obvious movie pick for a middle-aged audience—but only if you don’t take into account that the story is a film adaptation of a cherished novel by the beloved and bestselling author, Judy Blume. When you do, it makes perfect sense that the theatre is full of women in their forties, fifties and sixties, as it was when I saw it. And it’s giving them plenty of laughs. The delightful, entertaining movie does justice to Blume’s unapologetically honest story about girlhood and naturally...
Read MoreWhat is the difference between real and personal property, and why is it important for estate planning?
In estate planning, there are two types of property: real and personal. Real property includes items such as real estate, land, and buildings.Personal property includes bank accounts, investments, heirlooms, and valuables. If your net worth is significant, carefully consider, with the advice of your financial and legal representative, the power to be granted to your executor with all your real and personal properties. Personal property held jointly with another person, such as bank accounts and homes, will not be considered part of an estate. They will pass automatically to the joint...
Read MoreMom & The Church of Tim Hortons
Her name was June. But of course she was always Mom to me. Only once did I call her June, just to test the waters, when I was a daring teenager, young and oh-so foolish. Once! But this piece is not about that particular event. In celebration of Mother’s Day (which I feel should be much more than once a year) I have a story; a true story about my Mom. Although I am loathed to advertise big businesses I’ve always entitled the tale as ‘The Church of Tim Hortons’. But first I need to set the stage, of course. Dad was a Catholic, through and through – his Dad, my...
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