Tawnya and Chris Wilkinson

Aging 101

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Tawnya and Chris Wilkinson are passionate about fitness and about helping others live better lives. Initially working in the area of personal training and wellness coaching, they began dreaming of launching their own business and found elder care to be a perfect fit for them. They started their award-winning Nurse Next Door franchise in 2008, providing in-home care and support for seniors in Cowichan, Nanaimo, Parksville and surrounding communities. “Make a difference in the lives of others” and “admire people” are the core values that guide them in their business and personal lives.

Aging.   We all do it.  And we all do it differently.   Let’s start with the very basics – you can spell it ‘aging’, or ‘ageing’ – either way it’s something you’re doing right this second!  Every single reaction going off in every single cell in your body every micro second makes you a little wee bit older.   Every single time you put food or beverage in your mouth, or every time you choose to be active or not, you’re making a choice about how you want to age.

Let’s look at the major components of intelligent aging.  In my mind the three primary pieces of intelligent aging are health, planning, and engagement.

Health

As I touched on above – every single decision about what you do or don’t put into your body says something about how you’ve chosen to age.   Typically unhealthy food choices, alcohol intake, or lack of fibre intake, quality vitamins, omega-3 oils, – these are all things that impact your health greatly.   Not over a week, month, or even a year.   But over time it adds up.  Our body is actually quite forgiving, but over years – even 5 years – it starts to compound like interest.   At 3 meals a day, over 5 years, that is 5,500 times you ingested healthy food to nourish your cells – or 5,500 times you ate for momentary satisfaction and neglected your cells, the building blocks of life.

And as it pertains to physical activity, each day that you are not active is a day that your joint fluids and soft tissues did not get a flush through your system.  It’s literally like not flushing. 

Finally, stress is such a burden on our health, and such an imposed part of our society, that one must learn how to control their own stress levels.  Breathing exercises, walking in nature, gardening, yoga, meditation – these are all growing in popularity because people are becoming more aware of the important of stress control. 

Planning

Planning ahead means taking some time out to plan for finances, future health wishes, appointing legal representatives (eg. Power of Attorney), etc.   Having the important discussions with your financial and legal representatives, as well as your doctor is aging intelligently.

Engagement

Perhaps the most important component pertaining to our happiness as we age is engagement.   Being engaged in life leads to more health and happiness.  The landmark Harvard Grant Study has taught us that our close meaningful relationships (or the lack thereof) are the single greatest variable in our happiness levels.  Being engaged in life means we have close personal relationships and friendships with people that add value to our lives.   It also means we seek more knowledge.   We seek to be entertained and interested in things.  We seek social connections.   And we seek to be involved.  All these things feed our spirit and slow down our aging. 

Whether your in your 20s or 30s and think that 60 is old, or if your in your 60s and you think that 80 is old, or even if your in your 80s and think that 100 is old – these principles still apply.   What you do today is your choice for how you want to age.

Age intelligently.

 

Tawnya and Chris Wilkinson
Nurse Next Door
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250-748-4357 (Duncan); 250-667-0190 (Nanaimo); 250-927-1895 (Parksville)
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